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I admit that while I don't post often and it seems more often than not I've been posting about the negative, things seem to be pretty good with the monkey and I.

  • The monkey has made a number of appointments to take care of herself well.

  • We went up to her college, and took care of some problems. She's once again a student although we're waiting on some more paperwork to finalize it all.

  • After asking repeatedly about job applications, I decided that we won't worry about it until "q2" (i.e. april).

  • She sat down, just a few hours ago for a haircut. No fuss, no muss. She's now sporting a mohawk. which still gives me something to grab, even though it appeals to my short-hair fetish.

  • She's been doing well in keeping the house clean, and in taking care of me during an event we were recently at.

  • Her body has been staying shaved.

  • We've been getting to bed at mostly reasonable hours. My plan of "get to bed early, then get up and spend time doing things until she wakes" seems to be mostly cohesive.

All in all, I feel really proud, and hopeful. It feels like a good start to the year.

Date: 2011-01-20 03:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bloodbeauty.livejournal.com
just been reading through entries after only really keeping up with you (or at least the monkey) on Fetlife for quite a while. i'm always struck by how similar our issues are...

on the anger/screaming/outbursts front have you tried any sort of martial art? it's my plan for the new year (though i'm yet to actually go but that's my failing, hope you wont beat me to it :P) both for the control aspect (self control, awareness of your body, breathing techniques similar to meditation) and for low-impact excersise (which can apparently help with back/joint problems) and things that are specifically to do with anger (only hitting people when you *really* mean it)

i don't know if it's too late/not an issue anymore but vitimin E is reportedly very good at minimising unwanted scarring

i really really hope you reach your goals for the year with alacrity and i'm very glad your year has started well!

Date: 2011-01-21 02:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] topthemonkey.livejournal.com
Thank you for your kind words.

Mederma is also a good thing. I wish the marks were in such a place where she didn't need a partner to apply it effectively.

Feel free to friend me on fetlife.

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