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The monkey goes home today...
Feb. 29th, 2008 06:31 amThe subject line says it all, really.
Today, the monkey departs back to our previous homeland (a few hundred miles away). I'm driving him. He'll be staying with his parents. Other than his (fairly discreet) pet collar, there will be no kink.
His responsibilities are simple: Make himself ready to belong to me. Prove himself capable of taking care of what will be my property.
This includes on a more minor level: Showering daily, eating healthy, waking at a reasonable and consistent hour, doing at least some nominal exercise each day. These may not sound difficult, but when I'm home I turn into an insomniac who just drifts listless around the house and only eats carbs, never leaving, showering once a week, staying in pajamas, hating life. His masturbation restriction remains, and I'm unlikely to grant any permission remotely. Same for the restriction on his favorite food. I'm guessing he means ice cream.
The Monkey is to have no personal contact with the person (mentioned earlier in this Journal) who forced himself on The Monkey. They've been talking online, and while the monkey still considers him a friend (I'm sorry, (No, you're not) but I don't think I "get it", monkey. He rapes you. You masturbate afterwards (Technically it was during). You report it to me, sobbing. You guys remain friends. And he'd do it again given half a chance. Hell, he HAD done it again, even knowing you might be punished.)
I've told the monkey, that when he returns, he'll be getting a steel collar. I believe that his collar will be one from NeoSteel, at least at first. The investment is reasonable, it's comfortable, and still looks okay to mundanes. I really disagree on that last point. He may "graduate" up to finer collars, but for a new slave, this one is a fair choice. (I would have considered a gorean collar from houseofcollars/eternitycollars/dreamstrike, but a) I've already owned those before and b) the monkey previously wore one.)
Other conditions will be evident when he returns as well -- even though he's been IN this new house for a while, to gain rank in this new house, he will have to start from the ground up, and that means when he comes here, he will be restricted to the house for at least a couple weeks, probably not even allowed internet or IMs (other than for school and therapeutic reasons).
I have issues with this. I tend to isolate myself to begin with, having some social anxiety, and I really don't think this will be healthy for me. Going out to eat is overwhelming for me right now, I've spent so much time confined. Also, due to the lack of exercise, even walking ANYWHERE my achilles tendons are getting tighter and I practically get out of breath walking to the mailbox.
I want him to enter this house as a full slave. Naked, wearing nothing but his collar. With a contract, signed. On the contract note, I may post it here for review. The way I hope to work it is he will have a base contract, with core, inalienable rules. His property. His uniform. His core responsibilities. His safeword privileges. Who may (or who may not) give him orders to do what. Then, any time his privileges change, he will receive a copy of the new rules, and will have to sign them. In this way, there can be no doubt as to his expectations. Similar for changes to chores and expected duties (the difference being the Other Master can assign him chores, whereas real rules are strictly myself). And so much more, to be detailed, after the fact.
He's nervous as hell, poor thing. Scared of not coming back. Scared of the commitments involved when he comes back. Scared of breaking the "I'm going to be moving away" news to Parents and still having them cover certain things. Scared of what will happen when I am home.
He's a good slave, though, and I have complete faith in him. He has in the past (and will continue to) make me proud.
My name is D, and I love my Monkey. Beyond words.
Today, the monkey departs back to our previous homeland (a few hundred miles away). I'm driving him. He'll be staying with his parents. Other than his (fairly discreet) pet collar, there will be no kink.
His responsibilities are simple: Make himself ready to belong to me. Prove himself capable of taking care of what will be my property.
This includes on a more minor level: Showering daily, eating healthy, waking at a reasonable and consistent hour, doing at least some nominal exercise each day. These may not sound difficult, but when I'm home I turn into an insomniac who just drifts listless around the house and only eats carbs, never leaving, showering once a week, staying in pajamas, hating life. His masturbation restriction remains, and I'm unlikely to grant any permission remotely. Same for the restriction on his favorite food. I'm guessing he means ice cream.
The Monkey is to have no personal contact with the person (mentioned earlier in this Journal) who forced himself on The Monkey. They've been talking online, and while the monkey still considers him a friend (I'm sorry, (No, you're not) but I don't think I "get it", monkey. He rapes you. You masturbate afterwards (Technically it was during). You report it to me, sobbing. You guys remain friends. And he'd do it again given half a chance. Hell, he HAD done it again, even knowing you might be punished.)
I've told the monkey, that when he returns, he'll be getting a steel collar. I believe that his collar will be one from NeoSteel, at least at first. The investment is reasonable, it's comfortable, and still looks okay to mundanes. I really disagree on that last point. He may "graduate" up to finer collars, but for a new slave, this one is a fair choice. (I would have considered a gorean collar from houseofcollars/eternitycollars/dreamstrike, but a) I've already owned those before and b) the monkey previously wore one.)
Other conditions will be evident when he returns as well -- even though he's been IN this new house for a while, to gain rank in this new house, he will have to start from the ground up, and that means when he comes here, he will be restricted to the house for at least a couple weeks, probably not even allowed internet or IMs (other than for school and therapeutic reasons).
I have issues with this. I tend to isolate myself to begin with, having some social anxiety, and I really don't think this will be healthy for me. Going out to eat is overwhelming for me right now, I've spent so much time confined. Also, due to the lack of exercise, even walking ANYWHERE my achilles tendons are getting tighter and I practically get out of breath walking to the mailbox.
I want him to enter this house as a full slave. Naked, wearing nothing but his collar. With a contract, signed. On the contract note, I may post it here for review. The way I hope to work it is he will have a base contract, with core, inalienable rules. His property. His uniform. His core responsibilities. His safeword privileges. Who may (or who may not) give him orders to do what. Then, any time his privileges change, he will receive a copy of the new rules, and will have to sign them. In this way, there can be no doubt as to his expectations. Similar for changes to chores and expected duties (the difference being the Other Master can assign him chores, whereas real rules are strictly myself). And so much more, to be detailed, after the fact.
He's nervous as hell, poor thing. Scared of not coming back. Scared of the commitments involved when he comes back. Scared of breaking the "I'm going to be moving away" news to Parents and still having them cover certain things. Scared of what will happen when I am home.
He's a good slave, though, and I have complete faith in him. He has in the past (and will continue to) make me proud.
My name is D, and I love my Monkey. Beyond words.
