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Madison Young on submission
Jun. 24th, 2009 08:22 pmThe idea that a submissive is weak is a very uninformed concept. Amongst a good submissive you will find amazing strength and a desire to bring people pleasure. I do receive pleasure from a job well done and feel like submission can be a very empowering experience.
Its a very Buddhist like experience, like giving up all of your possessions in order to find true freedom from the material world. Submission is a very zen like experience that can be a very rewarding one. I also find a great deal of freedom and pleasure in my masochism. A masochist is someone who derives pleasure from intense sensation or "pain".
When I am gifted with the intense sensation of a hand or a paddle or a cane striking my butt or thighs, I'm receiving energy from my dominant. What I do with that energy is up to me. I can redirect that energy from the cane to my heart or my cunt and I can breathe the energy back out sharing it with my dominant. Its an energy exchange. When you have all of that energy buzzing around inside of you and circulating that energy and breath with your lover or dominant, you can feel incredibly empowered and connected.
When you begin to understand your sexuality and your sexual desires and you go out into the world and seek out fulfillment of those desires and communicate with your partner your wants, and their wants, and the journey that the two of you would like to go on together, that is a very empowering experience. I'm constantly approached by vanilla couples that don't know how to communicate their desires to their partner. When a woman or man is in control of her sexuality and her sexual desires, that is empowerment.
taken from Madison Young: our favorite art slut by Juliette Tang at San Francisco Guardian's Local Sex-Positive Blog
Its a very Buddhist like experience, like giving up all of your possessions in order to find true freedom from the material world. Submission is a very zen like experience that can be a very rewarding one. I also find a great deal of freedom and pleasure in my masochism. A masochist is someone who derives pleasure from intense sensation or "pain".
When I am gifted with the intense sensation of a hand or a paddle or a cane striking my butt or thighs, I'm receiving energy from my dominant. What I do with that energy is up to me. I can redirect that energy from the cane to my heart or my cunt and I can breathe the energy back out sharing it with my dominant. Its an energy exchange. When you have all of that energy buzzing around inside of you and circulating that energy and breath with your lover or dominant, you can feel incredibly empowered and connected.
When you begin to understand your sexuality and your sexual desires and you go out into the world and seek out fulfillment of those desires and communicate with your partner your wants, and their wants, and the journey that the two of you would like to go on together, that is a very empowering experience. I'm constantly approached by vanilla couples that don't know how to communicate their desires to their partner. When a woman or man is in control of her sexuality and her sexual desires, that is empowerment.
taken from Madison Young: our favorite art slut by Juliette Tang at San Francisco Guardian's Local Sex-Positive Blog
